Too much

A few months ago I joined BFF Sara and her kids to Jon's Incredible Universe. I didn't get to stay long during their visit, but I was able to eat lunch with them. At the time, oldest daughter Laurren got a bowl of ice cream from the dessert bar that was typical for a teenager (large). Other daughter Reily, (whom I claim to most people to be my niece, since Sara is the closest form of a sister that I have) asked for the same portion, Sara advised her that portion was "too much" for her. Like most three year olds, Reily has been met with this portion control for some time. Today in her innocent mind, there are only three possible portions available for her: small, regular, and too much! So it is with enthusiasm during my visits that she asks me to get her too much juice, too much cookies, too much candy, etc. The first time that she asked me for "too much" I started laughing, and even still now a few weeks later every time I hear it she makes me smile. I look into her big brown eyes and see such potential.

What if us alleged "grown ups" were so enthusiastic to have "too much?" Now I don't mean the kind of pigging out "too much" that Reily hopes for, but the kind of "too much" that would move our spirits? This weekend I make a stand to be enthusiastic and always ask (at least in my mind) for "too much." Too much love, too much laughter, too much happiness, and "too much" of all the other things that inspire me within a day's time. I will be excluding too much bad drivers, too much annoying people, and too much expensive bills from my list. =)

People say that "life is what happens while you are busy making other plans," I have never been more sure of that than I have been over the past three years. I finally got the clue and started slowing down and embracing the still small moments that I have in my days. Whether it be at work (my least "slow" place), with friends, with family, with Frankie, or riding along the bike trail. What I may have forgotten along the way is to to continue inviting new friends and experiences into my life.

It is time to re-claim my "too much." I hope that you will too.
My love to you all.

34

I can hardly believe that I turned 34 this year. I have to say that each year in my 30's has been an extreme growth opportunity. I expect the same in the coming year. I have said over and over that I choose friendship and love above all else...I aim to continue this pursuit.

At the gym on Monday I was reading a random gym magazine and came across a quote that I haven't seen in years, but fell in love with it all over again - Life is not about the amount of breaths you take, but about the amount of moments that take your breath away. Well said!! Whom of us does not revel in those moments that take our breath away. So for this year, I wish to experience many, many moments that take my breath away....and I wish the same for each of you. Maybe I am being mushy this week, but despite random frustrations, I am having a phenomenal week.

Meagan's goal for this year - Be inspired by every thing in each day that makes you smile or laugh, for this is God reminding us of how good He truly is!


One of my many favorite bible passages....
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but it rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, 13

Have a great week everyone.

Being Social!

Okay, so I admit that I have been dragging my proverbial feet on the social media stage, but the more that I am learning, the more I love it.

I started small by my darling friend Jasmin who introduced my to MySpace. After some boring time there, she dragged me over to Facebook. I've spent close to one year on Facebook and have only in the past couple of months found out about all the cool things it can do. It also makes interacting with my friends so much more fun! So here I am, virtually addicted to it daily.

To take the next step, I found Simplaris Blogcast, by way of an MSN story, that will feed my blogs into Facebook. How cool is that? I admit I have been a lazy blogger, but this could certainly cure the issue. Let's see how it goes.....

Birth Order

I have heard a decent amount over the years about the birth order of children. I never paid much attention to it, but as I sit here killing time before bed, I clicked on MSN's story about birth order as it relates to success in 2009. I will admit the story is laid out somewhat poorly. It only hosted a list of questions that you can click a hyperlink for the answer. But, the hyperlink didn't take you to the exact answer, but rather a google page on the topic.

So when I clicked on "These kids are better at handling disappointment and are good negotiators." It turns out to be the middle kids....and that would be me. As I read the blogsite for this particular answer, I found myself chuckling because it really hit home. Here it is for your reading pleasure. For those of you who aren't middle kids, check out MSN's story for yourself.
http://a-list.msn.com/default.aspx?cp-searchtext=Birth%20order%20(personality%20and%20characteristics)

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Parents are often more easy-going and less demanding with second and third children. As a result, many middle children end up with a more relaxed attitude towards life than their older sibs.

Here are some personality traits that are common in middle children:

Roll with It: Middle children often handle disappointments better. Say you strike out in softball and lose the game. If you were a first-born, you might feel guilty all day, but if you're a middle child, you'll probably find yourself just laughing it off.

Great Negotiator: Middles can be great at seeing both sides of an issue. After all, they're in the perfect place for it!

Lots of Loyal Friends: Middles tend to make friends easily. Once they have them, they often work harder to keep them. They're usually good at keeping secrets, too.

If you're a middle child, these feelings may be familiar:

• "I'm tired of being left out of things."
• "Nobody understands me!"
• "Nobody ever listens to me!" THIS IS SO ME! HAHAHAHAHA
  
• "I'm always in the shadow of my older sister/brother."
• "My youngest brother/sister gets away with everything."

Sometimes middle children have to try a little harder to "be heard" or get noticed, so remember: if you feel like you're being treated unfairly or not getting the attention you need, talk to a parent about it. They might not even realize what's been going on.

Middle children are really special because the term "middle" can mean so many different things. For example, you could be the second of three kids, the third of four kids, the fifth of six kids, or a twin.

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Well today, if you are one of my fabulous friends, I look forward to seeing you soon.
Enjoy the coming week.

Happy New Year!

Hello everyone,

I hope that you all had a great holiday season! I certainly have been quiet on the blog front, but as the new year promises new opportunity, new love, and new joys, I will certainly share them with you.

Have an amazing and relaxing New Year's weekend.
Hugs,
Meagan

But the greatest of these is Love....

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but it rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, 13

My love to you all today.
Hugs!