Birth Order

I have heard a decent amount over the years about the birth order of children. I never paid much attention to it, but as I sit here killing time before bed, I clicked on MSN's story about birth order as it relates to success in 2009. I will admit the story is laid out somewhat poorly. It only hosted a list of questions that you can click a hyperlink for the answer. But, the hyperlink didn't take you to the exact answer, but rather a google page on the topic.

So when I clicked on "These kids are better at handling disappointment and are good negotiators." It turns out to be the middle kids....and that would be me. As I read the blogsite for this particular answer, I found myself chuckling because it really hit home. Here it is for your reading pleasure. For those of you who aren't middle kids, check out MSN's story for yourself.
http://a-list.msn.com/default.aspx?cp-searchtext=Birth%20order%20(personality%20and%20characteristics)

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Parents are often more easy-going and less demanding with second and third children. As a result, many middle children end up with a more relaxed attitude towards life than their older sibs.

Here are some personality traits that are common in middle children:

Roll with It: Middle children often handle disappointments better. Say you strike out in softball and lose the game. If you were a first-born, you might feel guilty all day, but if you're a middle child, you'll probably find yourself just laughing it off.

Great Negotiator: Middles can be great at seeing both sides of an issue. After all, they're in the perfect place for it!

Lots of Loyal Friends: Middles tend to make friends easily. Once they have them, they often work harder to keep them. They're usually good at keeping secrets, too.

If you're a middle child, these feelings may be familiar:

• "I'm tired of being left out of things."
• "Nobody understands me!"
• "Nobody ever listens to me!" THIS IS SO ME! HAHAHAHAHA
  
• "I'm always in the shadow of my older sister/brother."
• "My youngest brother/sister gets away with everything."

Sometimes middle children have to try a little harder to "be heard" or get noticed, so remember: if you feel like you're being treated unfairly or not getting the attention you need, talk to a parent about it. They might not even realize what's been going on.

Middle children are really special because the term "middle" can mean so many different things. For example, you could be the second of three kids, the third of four kids, the fifth of six kids, or a twin.

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Well today, if you are one of my fabulous friends, I look forward to seeing you soon.
Enjoy the coming week.

Happy New Year!

Hello everyone,

I hope that you all had a great holiday season! I certainly have been quiet on the blog front, but as the new year promises new opportunity, new love, and new joys, I will certainly share them with you.

Have an amazing and relaxing New Year's weekend.
Hugs,
Meagan